Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Don't Ask Her Why...

There's a lady who has been asked by many people around her, especially recently, on the following questions:-
  1. You look gorgeous and attractive....Why are you still single?
  2. Why are you still single? You must be choosy lar....
  3. Why are you still single? There must be many guys going after you and you are choosing the most suitable one....
  4. You are kind-hearted, nice to people, cheeky and has great personality. Are you sure there's no one falling to you?
  5. Hey you can cook! Presentable too! Must be a very good girlfriend and wife lar..... But why still single??
  6. Why are you still single??? Whyyyyy.......

It's kinda annoying sometimes as the girl has no answer to the questions above. She has been thinking about it on the possible answers too, and let's see what's in her mind:-

  1. Gorgeous doesn't mean anything. It's even harder for a gorgeous lady to get courted, coupled by the fact if she has a rather good career. Guys may find him too attractive to go after....Maybe guys "paiseh" lar...
  2. She is not choosy. She likes to make friends around, and enjoy the moments of hanging out with friends. Probably she has met many guys who are not sincere, guys who just like to play around, guys who cheated on her. And she was smart enough to realise all this before everything is too late...that's why she is still single....
  3. It's only an illusion that many guys are going after her. Actually, she is also unsure whether there is anyone going after her currently. Everything seems to be uncertain nowadays. She has indeed met potential guys, but ended up everyone seems like taking advantage on her. Sincerity.....she wonders whether they understand this word anymore?
  4. People telling her that they like her, ok well, so go ahead to court her. Walk the talk please....
  5. Probably girls who know how to cook and has a perfect wife's characteristic is no longer an advantage to today's society. Probably guys like wild girls nowadays, whereby they are able to dump immediately if something goes hair wire someday in future. Better don't mess up with a so-called nice girl ehh??

Thanks to all the nice people around who compliment that she is gorgeous, cheeky, nice, lovely and so on. It could be just a sweet talk, but it could be a truth, depending which type of people is telling this. She is flattered, and she is happy...

The lady has met someone who somehow share the same philosophy with her lately. She befriended a friend recently, and he commented that he has somehow lose trust in relationship. Sincerity seems to be extinct nowadays. Oh well, the story of the friend stops here, as she has not gotten any consent from him to disclose anything here.

But, let me share the story of the lady here, which i think somehow relates to what he mentioned:

The lady has met wrong and unsuitable guy before, she met the wrong people at the wrong timing, made her life miserable at once. She had a hard time going through the transitional period, and realised that the bad experience has made her grown wiser. She is thankful to people who made her sad before, as she can now stand strong whenever anything goes wrong. She has much confidence on herself nowadays, taking and seeing things on another perspective. Life has never become so wonderful to her before. She is enjoying her life to the fullest everyday. Probably, the only thing that is missing in her life currently is a good companion. But after going through a few round of "possible relationship", similar with the guy friend as mentioned above, she also thinks that sincerity is already extinct. People take her kindness to granted. She laid her honesty to them, but she did not receive anything sincere in return. People is sometimes too demanding if they know that you are kind-hearted. But sometimes please do respect her kindness. She just do not want to have an enemy. She only likes to have friends around her. She hates to hate people.....

The lady has met unsuitable person before, but she still believe hope is still around. She believes that God will not ill treat a lovely lady or a charming guy. The right person will appear in front of you on the right timing. If you see her/him, please grab the chance and do not let her/him go.

The lady respects her friend who put the sincerity as his priority. He has gained the highest respect from the lady. There is no point being together if the couple is not sincere in any relationship. Please do not waste your time with someone who is cheating on you, someone who is taking your kindness for granted. You have many more wonderful things awaiting you to experience ahead...
To the lovely and adorable guy, if you are reading this, firstly please accept my apology for sharing your thought here without getting your consent at first (i buy you dinner next time ok??). I sincerely hope that you will find your little princess that shares similar passion with you and able to make you happy. Most importantly, i hope she is the one that has a kind and sincere heart ...
Love is like a Life
It's not always easy and it does not always bring happiness
When we do not stop Living
Why should we stop Loving
Readers, appreciate your loved ones. I hope you guys are having a wonderful life now....
~~ Good Luck ~~

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